Remembering CPT Douglas DiCenzo ~ NH Hero
Remembering CPT Douglas DiCenzo, husband, father, son, brother and friend, was killed in action on May 25th, 2006 serving during the War in Iraq. Doug was company commander for C Company in the 1st Armored Division 2nd Brigade based in Baumholder, Germany.
Doug was born and raised in Plymouth, NH. During his years at Plymouth Regional High School, Doug was a natural leader, excelling both in the classroom and on the athletic field. DiCenzo was president of the Plymouth Class of 1995, and captain of the football and wrestling teams. With the help of his younger brother Dan, he led the Bobcat football team to the state championship in his senior year. He also was a school board representative from the high school and was a member of the National Honor Society.
After high school, Doug attended the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, fulfilling a long time interest in the Army and service for his country. Upon graduation, Doug continued post-graduation training in Georgia, where we had the great fortune to meet a young woman from Tennessee named Nicole. It was love at first sight, and after a courtship that included moving to Fairbanks, Alaska together, Doug & Nicole were married.
Three years after arriving in Alaska, Doug and Nicole were on the move again, this time overseas to Germany. They soon picked up another member of the family when their son, Dakin Mark DiCenzo, was born in 2004. Doug, Nicole and Dak had a wonderful life together in Germany, often getting outside of the confines of the base to explore the outdoors in typical Doug style.
Throughout his life, Doug was an avid outdoorsman, enjoying hiking, hunting and skiing. The Captain Douglas DiCenzo Camp Fund was established to help give others the opportunity to pursue the activities that Doug loved himself.
To Remember is to Honor…
Remembering PFC Nicholas Cournoyer ~ NH Hero
Remembering PFC Nicholas Cournoyer – KIA 5/18/06 when an IED detonated near his Humvee during combat operations in Baghdad. Operation Iraqi Freedom, 2nd Battalion, 22nd Infantry, 1st Brigade Combat Team, 10th Mountain Division
Before enlisting, he worked as a mason’s assistant in the Laconia, NH area. He bought a truck that he had fixed up and paid off. He planned to buy a Harley-Davidson after his tour ended.
“He was fun-loving and he had a huge heart that reached out to many people” Natalie, his sister, told the Laconia Citizen. “He was very much proud of being a soldier” His parents described their son as a generous young man who “was always looking out for his buddies in his unit.” Nick was a 2000 graduate of Gilford High School. In the yearbook he listed joining the military as one of his goals. Faculty members remembered him fondly. “He just had a happy presence in school” said school nurse Meg Jenkins. “He was very polite very kind — always had a twinkle in his eye.”
Never forget-
TO REMEMBER IS TO HONOR…..
Spc. David S. Stelmat 22 Mar 2008 ~ Iraq
Maryanne Rennell with the Honor and Remember flag for her son, Spc. David S. Stelmat 22 Mar 2008 ~ Iraq
Presented April 27, 2014 NH Gold Star Mother Day
Remembering and Honoring LCpl Robert Moscillo ~ NH Hero
Remembering and honoring LCpl Robert Moscillo, 21 he was KIA on 5-1-06 by a roadside bomb. He was assigned to 1st Combat Engineers, 1st Marine Division, Bravo Company based at Camp Pendleton.
Bobby, to his family, was a 2003 Salem High School graduate and a member of the wrestling team who enjoyed staying as active as possible. He was a sports fanatic and kept a good grade point average and planned to go to college to become a pastor. His teachers remember him as “the kind of boy who tried hard all the time”.
He joined the Marines in 2005 to serve his country and was a machine gunner in his unit charged with detecting land mines. He had planned to make a career out of the military.
He was nicknamed “The Chaplin” at boot camp. He prayed with other Marines and sometimes persuaded them to go to church with him and his grandmother. He wanted to become a pastor and thought the Marines could help him afford seminary school.
Bobby was a son, brother, friend and most of all a father figure to his five siblings. He was close to his cousins and was known for always being protective of his siblings and cousins. Family members said he was not just the stern man seen in his Marine dress photo, but a likable, fun-loving character who served as a good role model to his younger relatives.
As a child Bobby liked G.I. Joe action figures, even dressing up like one for Halloween.
His family learned of Bobby’s death almost 30 years after the death of his uncle, Robert L. Moscillo, for whom he is named, who died returning home from Navy service during the Vietnam War in 1976.
TO REMEMBER IS TO HONOR…
Remembering and honoring Sgt Angelo Lozada, Jr ~ NH Hero
Remembering and honoring Sgt Angelo Lozada, Jr. – KIA 4/16/2005 – Operation Iraqi Freedom. He was assigned to the 2nd Battalion, 17th Field Artillery Regiment, 2nd Brigade Combat Te4am, 2nd Infantry Division, Camp Hovey, Korea.
The last call from Angelo to his family was a happy one; he was headed home in 2 weeks. He wanted to surprise his mother for Mother’s Day and meet his first grandchild. He was killed in Ramadi, Iraq when his section’s M109 Paladin took a direct hit from a rocket while in the battery firing position.
Angelo grew up in Brooklyn, NY with his parents, 5 brothers, 2 sisters and a large extended family. Growing up, he earned a reputation as a practical joker who always looked out for his younger siblings. He and his two brothers, Louis and Antonio, joined the reserves after graduating from Easton District High School in Brooklyn, NY. He moved to Nashua when he was 19 and served in the New Hampshire National Guard for 6 years before switching over to active duty in the Army. His family says Angelo considered New Hampshire to be his home.
His brother Antonio said one of the reasons he loved the reserves was traveling the world. “He wanted to travel and he got to. He was gung-ho all the way.”
Gus, another of Angelo’s brothers referred to Robert Frost’s “The Road Less Traveled” saying his brother took a road of unselfishness, sacrifice and service. Family was very important to Angelo. His son, Michael, said his father often brought him to the movies and had coached his baseball team when he was little. “He did right for everybody. We were always worried about him, but he was always worried about us,” his sister Angela said. “He was a sweetheart” said his brother the Rev. Augustin Rodriquez. “He cared very much for everyone – he was just a good person.”
Angelo was the first NH soldier killed in Iraq to be laid to rest at the New Hampshire State Veterans Cemetery in Boscawen.
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Remembering Capt. Jonathan Grassbaugh ~ NH Hero
Honoring and remembering Army Captain Jonathan Grassbaugh KIA on April 7, 2007
On April 7, 2007 came the sad news that Exeter had lost its first alumnus in the Iraq war. Army Captain Jonathan Grassbaugh ’99, who was serving as an Army Ranger in Iraq, was killed by a roadside bomb. This was his second tour of duty in Iraq. He was stationed at Fort Bragg, NC, and was a member of the 73rd Cavalry, 5th Brigade of the 82nd Airborne Division. He leaves his wife, Jenna, also an Army Ranger, whom he married the summer of 2006.
His older brother, Army Captain Dr. Jason Grassbaugh, spoke at a special assembly in Exeter. Here is his tribute….
“Twelve years ago, when I was sitting where you are, I dreamed of being asked come back and speak after I’d cured cancer, spread democracy or made millions of dollars. I never expected to be back under these circumstances, and I want to thank you for allowing me the opportunity to come here and speak. The Jon I remember observed little things and delighted in sharing them with all of us. One March night when I was home from college, Jon made our whole family go to Grainger Observatory at 1AM. We were all skeptical about this trip, but Jon delivered. He provided stunning views of Saturn’s rings, a full moon and the nebulas he’d been studying in astronomy. Jon delighted in finding beauty around him and then sharing it with all the people that he knew.
In Iraq, Jon was a supply officer for a battalion, a unit of about 1,000 people. Over the past two weeks I’ve learned how Jon had achieved minor celebrity status in Iraq by getting hot pizzas delivered to his guys who were out in the mud. His guys consumed cases of an Iraqi energy drink called Wild Tiger as fast Jon could find ways to acquire it. The skills he learned here—looking closely at the people around him and then doing whatever they needed, whether they asked for it or not—are what made Jon a good officer in the Army and a better person. Ultimately, Jon died on a supply mission going to check on some of his guys at an outpost, making sure they had all the construction equipment that they needed to stay safe.
Someone asked me if I was angry that a hate group had decided to protest Jon’s funeral. I am actually glad they are here, because it allows us to see the face of extremism and intolerance that we may be better prepared to identify and confront it in the future. You will all face hate and intolerance, and through those things people will be hurt and people will suffer. Ultimately, the tools that you will use to combat hate and intolerance will be your reason, your empathy and your compassion for other people. You already have all of these things. Just be sure to use them to make the world a better place for the people around you, one hot pizza at a time.
Jon didn’t think there were many true moral dilemmas. He felt that if you had such a dilemma, you probably knew what was right inside. You just had to find the courage to act on it. My friends, your decisions in the future will have the ability to change the world and make it a better place. My brother strove to do that every day, to try to make the world a better place for the people near him.
If you take anything from here today, remember that if you observe the world closely, you will see how you can make it better. Let that be Jon’s legacy to you: to make the world a better place.
Remembering Army Master Sgt. Richard L. Ferguson ~ NH Hero
Honoring and remembering Army Master Sgt. Richard L. Ferguson of Conway, NH. He died March 30, 2004 when the military vehicle he was riding in rolled over in Samarra, Iraq. He was serving during Operation Iraqi Freedom. Richard was assigned to the 10th Special Forces Group, Fort Carson, Colorado. He had served in Bosnia, Germany, Iraq and elsewhere, but his missions and deployments were often kept classified.
“What went on, he left at work or with the guys”, said his father, Lee Ferguson, Sr. “When he came home, he laughed, he joked, he went camping with the kids, he went on trips, he worked around the house.”
Richard dropped out of high school at age 17 and later earned his GED. He joined the Army becoming a career military man. “Once he got in, he loved it and he stayed with it. That was his home, “his father said.
He was also a history buff and spent 20 years putting together a family tree tracing his roots back the to 1700’s. Richard had come to terms with the dangers of the military job he loved.
Despite being a member of an elite military force, Richard was humble and found more often in fatigues than his dress uniform. He turned down a promotion that would have taken him out of the field. “He wasn’t a person to stand out there and say, “Look what I did,” his father said. “He liked being in the field. He was behind the scenes. He was a team leader”
TO REMEMBER IS TO HONOR….
Remembering Sgt Jeremiah Holmes ~ NH Hero
Remembering Sgt Jeremiah Holmes, the first New Hampshire National Guardsman killed in Ramadi, Iraq on 3-29-2004 when a bomb rocked the truck in which he was riding in a convoy.
He was a member of the Army National Guard 744th Transportation Company with headquarters in Hillsboro, N.H., and detachments in Claremont and Somersworth. His unit was deployed for training in late December, and sent to Iraq in February for 18 months.
During the departure ceremony two weeks before Christmas, Holmes’ wife, Kimberly, held their infant son, Kaleb. When asked how she felt about his deployment, she told the newspaper, “Not good. I feel bad for the baby.” Holmes and his wife had been selected by Foster’s Sunday Citizen for a series of stories showing how one family copes with a military deployment.
“I’m worried about losing my best friend and not being able to see the person I’ve spent every day with for a year and a half,” Kimberly Holmes told the Dover newspaper in January. The day before her husband’s death, she was in the process of setting up a second interview.
Holmes served on active duty from 1994 to 1999, when he joined the New Hampshire Guard.
“Jay was just a wonderful individual, a keeper,” said Patsy Koelker, a neighbor, using the name everyone knew him by. “He was kind and caring,” she said, and if there was an errand to be done, he was “at the head of the line.”
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Remembering CPL Michael Ouellette ~ NH Hero
Remembering CPL Michael Ouellette – KIA 3-22-09 in Afghanistan he was 28 year old, of Manchester, N.H.; assigned to the 3rd Battalion, 8th Marine Regiment, 2nd Marine Division, II Marine Expeditionary Force, Camp Lejeune, N.C.; while supporting combat operations. He trained as an infantryman and served two tours in Iraq before being sent to Afghanistan in November 2008. Mike was the kind of person that if you ever had the pleasure to meet, you would never forget. He was genuine, kind, down to earth, and he always knew how to have a good time. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
This is from his mom, Donna: “Michael loved the outdoors, hiking with friends in the the beautiful White Mountains. He enjoyed traveling, had a wicked sense of humor and was very outgoing, making new friends wherever he went. He was very insightful and concerned about not only major issues like politics and the environment, but also about people and how/why they should get involved in helping to make this a better place t live. He would go out of his way to help someone who needed a helping hand. His biggest passion was food – creating new recipes, going to culinary school, and firmly believed that no one in this country should go hungry or be homeless. He was a true and loyal friend, always finding a way to inspire others to be part of something bigger than themselves.”
Michael Ouellette will forever be remembered as a brave and courageous hero who sacrificed his life for the freedom of others. For his conspicuous gallantry, bold leadership, wise judgment, complete dedication to duty, displaying exceptional valor in combat by leading his Marines in a gun battle in Afghanistan, even after suffering a mortal wound, Cpl. Ouellette was posthumously awarded the Navy Cross, the highest award presented by the Department of the Navy and the military’s second highest award for valor next to the Medal of Honor.
Michael was a squad leader in 1st Platoon, Lima Company, 3rd Battalion, 8th Marines, from Camp Lejeune, N.C. On March 22, 2009, his unit was in its fifth month on the ground in the Now Zad district in northern Helmand province.
Almost two hours into a foot patrol, which began in the morning at Forward Operating Base A.P. Hill, Ouellette was wounded by the blast of an improvised explosive device that detonated under his feet.
As the dust settled, the gunfire began from enemy positions a few meters away, and Ouellette lay bleeding in a crater.
Gaining their bearings, the Marines of 1st Platoon scrambled to lay down suppressing fire and Cpl. Jesse Raper, a squad automatic machine gunner, pulled Ouellette, who was conscious and breathing, out of the crater. Together they began to apply tourniquets and Ouellette stayed in charge, said Hospitalman 3rd Class Matthew Nolen, who ran to Ouellette’s side within moments.
With the lower half of his left leg gone and his right upper thigh and groin area ripped through with shrapnel, Ouellette knew there was no time to waste. He calmly took charge of his squad’s response to the enemy ambush.
“When I get there, he’s still calling out orders, he’s still telling the radio operator what to call in for helos, what to call in for mortars, calling his evac nine-line in and making sure that his assistant team leader, Lance Cpl. Rupert, has everything under control,” Nolen said.
But Ouellette’s time was slipping away. As a quick-reaction force sped toward the ambush site, having been hampered by additional IEDs along the route, he was taken by ground ambulance to a casualty evacuation landing zone about two kilometers away. And, according to Nolen, Ouellette was still breathing and conscious when the bird took off.
“I’m proud of my Marines,” were the last words Nolen heard Ouellette say as he waited for that bird.
TO REMEMBER IS TO HONOR…
Remembering Sgt. David Stelmat ~ NH Hero
Sgt. David “DJ” Stelmat, 27, was KIA on 3-22-2008, in Iraq as a result of a roadside bomb while serving as a medic in the 237 Military Police Company.
Stelmat was a former U.S. Army infantryman who fought on the front lines in Afghanistan. He later traded his weapon for a first-aid kit as a medic with the New Hampshire Army National Guard in Iraq.
His mom, Maryanne, told me that she “would like people to remember his smile and the glint of mischief in his eye.” “My son was a well loved and respected young man.” “I was truly blessed. He was the best son a mom could ever, ever have had.” “He always wanted to help others. Perhaps what most distinguished D.J. as a person was the way he was connected. Not only to his family and his friends, but to the world he lived in.”
He loved the outdoors and for 3 years he choose to live in a humble 10×10 cabin in the woods of Franconia because he wanted to see what it was like to live like Daniel Boone.
David and his friends were responsible for a widely circulated photograph after the 2001 terrorist attacks. They climbed to the top of the Old Man in the Mountain to hang a huge American flag from the granite profile. He went back later to retrieve it, but not before some photos were made into posters memorializing the moment.
He was expected to return from Iraq after 15 month deployment and resume his studies at the New Hampshire Technical Institute in Concord and become a Physician’s Assistant.
May God be with Maryanne and the rest of the family bringing them comfort, especially today.
TO REMEMBER IS TO HONOR…